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1. Management tends to play favorites.
One of the most destructive issues in company politics is favoritism. Deep resentment grows like a zit on your face people see that someone is getting ahead because the boss before, or knows him or her socially?
I once worked with a CEO who was adamant that people got promoted because of their performance. I said to him, "That's not what I hear!" I asked him to go to his people and ask the question,
"How do people get promoted around here?"
He was shocked to find out that people got ahead based on how much they jogged with the CEO.
Management often make the career de-railing mistake of promoting people he or she feels comfortable with and can trust rather than surrounding him/herself with the best people.
It's dangerous for a manager to promote "friendlies" or former colleagues, but we do it anyway. One reason is that top management is more isolated than most people in their organizations realize. We're vulnerable to and reliant on those we ask for advice, perspective, and emotional support.
This is why management makes the mistake of choosing people for our inner circle with whom we feel comfortable and whose skills and thought processes are familiar.
The price of this practice?
Lack of objectivity by a manager in assessing performance.
Being blind as to how the favored individual fits the culture of the organization.
Most dangerous? Filtering out crucial information that I, the manager, does not want to hear.
The paradoxical fix: Choose those people who will brutally confront and tear back the veil of ignorance. Close, trusted, courageous colleagues can be the best ones to do that.
2. Management stays beyond our usefulness.
Much management hates the reality of succession. It goes against our grain - we become legends in our own minds. It is really hard to separate ourselves from our work. We often wrap our identity in our job and title. This is tragic for management ho is approaching retirement.
We all fear losing our professional and personal significance. Finding and mentoring a successor is one of a manager's key tasks. It's probably the one most of us avoid because of our fear of impending, imagined insignificance.
The Fix: Develop successors. Position yourself to be a valued advisor who will be called on for wise, experienced insights even after retirement. The pay off for doing this is that you can still be seen as a valuable contributor while not having the responsibilities of delivering. You leave the tough work to others.
3. Managerial power is addictive.
Yes, good, effective, responsible management work hard. We carry lots of responsibilities, demands and tensions. We also hold a lot of power over people's lives because we can hire, promote, develop and fire people. A highly effective manager is both respected and feared by employees -- hopefully 80% respected, 20% feared.
We hold people's future in our hands -- and they know it.
Many management have little semblance of a work-life balance. Our physical, mental and spiritual health and family relationships often suffer. Our personal interests are generally limited to a narrow set of activities that feed our careers.
Being recognized and rewarded as a top manager means getting gobs of attention and perks. Highly effective management gets respect, credibility, and authority by virtue of our performance and position. We can assert their will over others to get things done. People march to the beat of our drum, not so much the other way around.
The fix: Get a life outside of work. This becomes more and more important as we age. We are likely to spend more time living after our careers end than we spent working at our jobs.
Get prepared early or suffer the slings and arrows of outrageous insignificance and emptiness. Are you ready, willing and able to live the next chapter of your life?
Dr. Jim Sellner:
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